The man’s expression softened. “Wow, I didn’t mean to assume anything.

I guess we all think people are looking for what we are.” He chuckled awkwardly and apologized. We ended up having a surprisingly deep conversation about boundaries, self-worth, and how often people misread situations because of their own insecurities.

When I left the restaurant that day, I felt empowered. It was a reminder that our value isn’t determined by anyone else’s assumptions. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is stand firm in who you are and what you’re striving for—because before anyone gets their hopes up about you, your dreams should always come first.