I (34F) married my husband, Mark (42M), a year ago. There are a few simple rules in our house to keep things running smoothly: Sunday chores, no devices in common spaces, and weekly family meetings. It’s our way of making sure everyone feels heard and respected. Recently, Mark’s 14-year-old daughter, Lily, moved in with us for the summer. I was excited but nervous — I wanted her to feel welcome, even though I knew blending a family can be tricky.
At dinner one evening, Lily was glued to her tablet, not really engaging in conversation. I gently asked her to put it away, explaining that dinner was family time. Without warning, she stood up, flung her tablet across the room, and shouted, “You’re not my mom! You can’t tell me what to do!” My heart sank. I stayed calm and told her I wasn’t trying to replace her mom, only to create a peaceful home for all of us. She stormed off, and I sat there in silence, stunned.
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