For women, tradition calls for a floor-length evening gown, typically with a structured bodice and full skirt. While long gloves are no longer essential, the overall look is expected to remain modest, usually with covered shoulders.

Color also plays a role. White has long been the preferred choice at royal banquets, with many high-profile guests following that tradition.

Both Melania Trump and Ivanka Trump wore white at a Buckingham Palace state dinner in 2019, alongside several senior royals. As King Charles’s former butler Grant Harrold put it, “White is a very traditional color for the state banquets.” Former First Lady Michelle Obama also chose white for a similar event in 2011.

Against that backdrop, Melania’s decision to wear a pink, strapless gown stood out — suggesting she wasn’t strictly adhering to traditional British protocol.

Her sculpted, shoulder-baring pink gown — reportedly worth up to $80,000 — stood out not only for its color but for its more daring cut. She paired the look with off-white Dior suede gloves and pale silk pumps, leaning into high-fashion glamour rather than traditional restraint.

Mixed reactions

And people noticed.

Social media quickly lit up with mixed reactions. Some praised the look as bold and beautiful, while others questioned whether it was appropriate for such a formal diplomatic setting.

“I love Melania. She is stunning. But that dress looks like the inaugural gown in all white instead of black and white,” one person wrote.

”Imagine a dress so perfectly tailored that the hem skims the floor without being a fraction too long or short. Beautiful,” another added.

A third said: “Can’t say I love that dress Melania is wearing..I don’t understand the structure of it, normally I love her choices.”

Others were more blunt: “Melania is gorgeous, but this pink dress is odd.”

“At least the dress has a personality,” another person wrote sarcastically.

And some critics took aim at the overall styling, with one commenting, “If Melania had half a brain, she would have worn lower heels, but instead shows up in her f-me shoes, widely inappropriate for a State visit.”

Still, not everyone saw an issue.

Supporters described the gown as “elegant” and “eye-catching,” arguing that modern state events leave room for personal style.

Interestingly, Queen Camilla also chose a pink gown for the evening, suggesting a more relaxed interpretation of traditional color expectations — though white has long been favored at such events.

This isn’t the first time Melania’s wardrobe has stirred controversy during the visit. Earlier in the day, she drew criticism for another outfit — and even a hat — with one viewer joking, “Melania looks like a floor lamp with that hat.”

The debate didn’t stop at fashion. President Donald Trump also faced scrutiny after greeting the royal couple, with some viewers claiming he broke protocol by making physical contact.

“I do not think you are supposed to touch a King or Queen, but, of course, Trump loves breaking protocol,” one commenter wrote.

Another added, “Forget etiquette – Donald has never heard of the word, nor has he heard of respect.”

Despite the backlash, the evening carried on with full ceremony, complete with a military color guard and formal photo ops — a reminder that even in the most tradition-bound settings, style choices can still steal the spotlight.