I married my first husband, Mark, when I was twenty. It wasn’t a whirlwind romance or an impulsive decision—it was simply what was expected of us. We came from old-money, country-club families in a town where reputation mattered more than feelings. Our lives had been intertwined long before we had any say in it.
Our parents vacationed together, attended charity galas side by side, sat on the same boards, and exchanged perfectly staged holiday cards taken by professional photographers. They even hosted engagement parties before we were officially engaged. Looking back, we were impeccably dressed figures pulled along by obligation rather than choice.
We weren’t reckless or madly in love.
We were expected.
I walked down the aisle in a designer gown my mother selected for me. Everyone praised us as the perfect match—two polished young adults raised with privilege, stepping seamlessly into the future our families had carefully planned. For a time, we believed that narrative ourselves.
I had our daughter, Rowan, the same year we married, and our son, Caleb, two years later. For years, Mark and I played our roles flawlessly. We sent out glossy holiday cards, hosted charity dinners, and smiled through endless social commitments. Our home had a manicured lawn and magazine-worthy décor.
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